Last month, my son and I went to a NASCAR race in Kansas City. On our way back home, we stopped to get some dinner. After leaving the restaurant, I was accelerating to get back onto the highway, when I felt my car hesitate. It had been doing that for a couple of weeks, but it was worse this time. And that’s when the “Service Engine Soon” light came on.
Something was going on underneath the hood that needed to be checked out. Something was wrong and the light was warning me about it.
I’m glad cars come with warning lights. They save us from ignoring or even being unaware of problems that could become very expensive to fix.
I think you and I have some warning lights as well. And when they illuminate, they’re letting us know that something’s wrong, that something needs to be checked out “underneath the hood.”
Those warning lights are our emotions.
I think I’ve had one lit up for a week or two now.
There was a day last week when I just felt annoyed. A bunch of little things were piling up and really starting to bother me. And I was starting to voice my frustrations.
Today, I’ve had trouble identifying just what it is I’m feeling. At first, I thought it was boredom. Then I wondered if I was just feeling stale. Although, I’m not really sure what “stale” should feel like. As I’ve thought about it some more, I think what I’m feeling is depleted. One dictionary defines “depleted” this way:
To decrease the fullness of; use up or empty out.
I don’t feel like I’m on empty, but my fullness has definitely been decreased.
Years ago, I read a book about a pastor who was very diligent in tracking two areas of his life: his workouts and his time with the Lord. He reasoned that if he was taking care of himself spiritually and physically then he would be okay. So he was completely caught off guard one day when he broke down in tears while sitting in his office.
He checked his spiritual and emotional “gauges” and they were both telling him everything was fine. So what was wrong?
There was another area of his life he’d failed to take care of and the breakdown in his office was the warning light. That area was his emotional health.
As he looked back at his schedule, he saw that he was involved in some very intensive activities that were depleting his emotional reserves. His activities were good ones, but they were running down his emotional battery and leaving him with little in reserve. Reading the Bible and exercising were not enough. He needed time to emotionally recharge as well.
How about you? What are your emotions telling you today? Is there a warning light that’s lit up?
Maybe it’s just a little annoyance or frustration like I was feeling last week. Or maybe it’s bigger like anger or discouragement or fear or anxiety.
If you’re not spending time in God’s word and taking care of yourself physically (exercise, eating well and getting enough sleep), then I’d start there. But let’s not ignore the need to also recharge emotionally.
For some of us, that might mean getting together with friends or taking a walk after work. Maybe it’s taking time to paint or go to a movie or read a book.
It’s tempting to think we should just maintain our hectic pace. Just keep going. Keep putting out. The problem comes when we’re depleted. When there’s nothing left to give.
When we get to that place, we’re not helping anyone, including ourselves, if we just keep pushing.
Is there a warning light on in your life?
If there is, what do you need to do about it?